15Dec
Because Dj is here visiting, I am able to make myself available to Carla & Jess as needed. On our second post-transplant visit we found her sitting up in a chair - this affords the body better opportunity for lung expansion, thereby further reducing the work done by the ventilator. Jess grinned at us when we walked in and as soon as we had shed our coats, she started waving her hands about and pointing at her feet (still encased in those sexy Anti-E sox and now wrapped in pressure sleeves). I asked if there was something wrong with her feet, she nodded and I asked if they were sore (possibly from the swelling) or just itchy from the sox. She responded by putting both hands out in front of herself and drawing her fingers back toward her thumbs and out again, repeatedly and with increasing urgency.
“Oh, you would like a foot massage?” I laughed and she promptly grinned and nodded. So we spent about 40 minutes engaged in this...
We had some news to share with her but were concerned about her reaction - given the excitement it caused the previous day when we shared email and text messages. Once I explained the news, Penny assured us that we should go ahead and tell her and she would closely watch Jess’ vitals. If they got out of hand, she would adjust her sedative, to calm her down if needed. We prefaced the news by telling Jess she had to remain calm - she nodded that she would do her best. Carla then told her that we would be heading to Billy Bishop later to pick up Brad who was coming to see her. We didn’t expect the reaction we got...at all!
Jess got a quizzical look on her face, then her eyes opened wide, she teared up and started to shake her head. She didn’t want him to come??
We quickly asked if she was in pain, to which she vigorously shook her head. Then it clicked for me...so I said, “Jess...listen. Brad got a day off from work so he could come for a short visit now, but don’t worry - he is still coming back at Christmas!”
She had thought he had maybe changed his plans to come earlier and took a minute to process that, and then she realized she was getting a bonus visit, not loosing her precious Christmas visit...and then she smiled...really big!
Jess was now able to attend to her own need for water. Although she still hadn't lost all the tubing, she could do her own swabs - a treat she engaged in as often as someone was willing to wet the sponges for her.
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| 15Dec, approx 10.5 hrs Post-transplant |
Brad had kindly provided me with photos of him and the boys, so I printed copies and took them to TGH so we could post them up in her room. Fine looking bunch don’t you think?

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| 16Dec - approximately 33 hrs post-transplant |
This woman means business and is not wasting any time depending on machines! She is now on a low flow of oxygen and working her way out of ICU. She’ll be in step-down (ACU) in no time...





Thanks for walking us through this, Pam!!! Thanks for helping tell the story...
ReplyDeleteI hope Carman's journey and recovery is as quick, and it happens soon!
Love, Steve
You're welcome Steve - it's scary how quickly you forget the little things that happen along the way to recovery - we're so caught up in the new lungs and machines, we might miss the patient's personality coming thru, even with a load of meds in their system!
DeleteAlready Jess and I have talked a few times about "Do you remember what happened that day we..."
Some has come back, but some is just faded to black. We'll keep at it though...